How to Spank Your Wife

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I relate. As a man, though, it's a little different -- we're not supposed to hurt women, we're supposed to protect them. I've never hit a woman in my life, and abhor those who do, including those who emotionally abuse their partners. That's the essence of my shame, deepened by the impossibility of trying to explain it to someone who is not a spanko, someone who isn't wired to understand. As Keenan said:

Just the other day I said a curse word, I said the S word when talking on the phone with a friend. He heard it and sternly said Watch your language. I said sorry and when I hung up he said Come here. I stood in front of him and he reached behind me and swatted by ** with his hand hard and said I don’t like you using that language. I said I was sorry and he said turn around I’m going to spank you. I turned around and bent over slightly and he spanked me ** the **. I said sorry again and he hugged me and gave me a kiss and then we made love. He can be gentle or rough in bed and he was very rough that night.As stated before, spanking counts as impact play, but toys such as floggers, paddles, whips, and crops may also be used, though most people don't start there. "At least 50 percent of people have some interest in spanking," says somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist Holly Richmond. "When we're talking about anything harder than that, the number drops a bit, for sure." Whether you want to try some light spanking or learn more about how to practice impact play in BDSM, there are some things you should know to do it safely. How do I talk to a partner about trying impact play? In the same way, does a wife need the awareness of her husband firmly holding the reins on her in his hand or she will forget the respect she owes him. This wasn’t the worst whuppin’ she’s ever given me (and no my Queen that is not a challenge;) , but it certainly got my attention and adjusted my attitude as only a good whuppin’ can! I tend to be impulsive and easily get overexcited and then, when I get carried away by the high spirit of the moment, forget the time, forget chores and other things I should do and also sometimes forget my manners and be mouthy and disrespectful. It is a kind of childishness I will never grow out of so I need a firm guiding hand and those usually 12 to 15 butt blistering spankings in a year to keep me reasonably well in line.

Some men will not discipline their wives due to fatigue, busy schedules, or fear of really taking control; with a regular maintenance spanking you can overcome this obstacle.

So she got home late (12:30 am), still laying awake but pretending to sleep, I wanted to see what she would do. She just went to bed and waited for me. We started making out and instantly went into play. She then told me that she thought about going to the couch instead of the bed because she was scared and asked if I was going to follow through.